Your childcare journey begins here.
We’re here to make finding, hiring, and supporting childcare easy so you can know you’ve set your kids up where they can thrive.
why you’re here
Finding the right care for your family is one of the most significant decisions you will make. At Pair & Care, we believe that childcare should be more than just a transaction; it should be a partnership rooted in trust, education, and shared values. Whether you are searching for a dedicated nanny to join your home or seeking expert guidance to navigate the local North Shore childcare landscape, we are here to provide the clarity and professional support you need to make these decisions with confidence
FAQs
How much does a nanny on the north shore actually cost?
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Market rates vary based on so many variables and levers like their experience, the number of children, added requirements. Currently, professional nannies in our area typically range from $25 to $35+ per hour. We help you benchmark a competitive rate that attracts high-caliber talent while staying within your family’s budget based on all of the unique factors you are looking for in a provider.
Do I really have to pay “over the table” and provide a W-2??
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Yes. Professionalizing your home starts with legal compliance. Paying legally protects your family from tax liability and ensures your nanny has access to essential benefits like unemployment insurance and a verifiable income history. We provide direct links to payroll specialists who handle the withholding and filings for you so it’s completely hands-off
What is the difference between a babysitter and a nanny?
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It comes down to intentionality and commitment. A babysitter typically provides temporary, supervisory care. A nanny is a professional partner invested in your child's developmental milestones, daily rhythms, and emotional well-being.
how long does it usually take to find the right match?
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A search typically takes between 4 to 8 weeks. We spend the first few weeks recruiting and screening and send you matches on a rolling basis as we find them so that when you finally meet a candidate, they are already a 95% match for your family’s values.
we aren’t sure if we need a nanny or a daycare
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This is a very common crossroads. Many of our families use a hybrid approach or start with a nanny before transitioning to school. Our Preschool Strategy consultations are designed to help you weigh the pros and cons of local options without the pressure of a 'sales pitch' for one or the other.
our Trusted payroll partners
We partner with GTM, HomePay, and Nanny Keeper to provide our families with the highest tier of payroll and legal support. These three firms are the benchmark for household employment excellence, offering total automation for your tax and insurance needs. Since their level of expertise is equally elite, we suggest selecting the interface that feels most natural for your daily use
Families wanting comprehensive concierge support, customizable benefits, and dedicated HR guidance.
Full Service Tax & Payroll: Complete handling of federal, state, and local nanny taxes, quarterly filings, and year-end W-2/W-3 forms.
Direct Deposit: Automated, hands-off direct deposit setup for your caregiver.
Insurance & Benefits Integration: Easy add-ons for workers’ compensation insurance, health benefits, and 401(k) plans.
White Glove Support: Access to team-based HR specialists and legal guidance for complex employment situations.
Budget-conscious families looking for a low-cost, DIY payroll software solution to handle calculations and forms in-house.
Ultra-Low Cost: Flat annual software license with no monthly base fees, pay-per-check charges, or per-employee add-ons.
Automated Calculations: Accurately calculates exact federal, state, and local tax withholdings, net pay, and overtime for every pay period.
Tax Form Generation: Generates print-ready quarterly tax reports, Schedule H worksheets, and year-end W-2/W-3 forms.
Direct Control: Perfect for employers who prefer to submit their own tax payments and maintain full hands-on control over their payroll schedule.
Families who want a widely recognized, household-name platform with zero tax stress and 100% tax-accuracy guarantees.
Turnkey Setup: Complete state tax registration, EIN setup, and end-to-end tax filing management.
Tax-Accuracy Guarantee: HomePay handles all audit responses and guarantees accuracy on federal and state tax returns.
Seamless Portal: Easy online timecard submission, automated pay stub generation, and client tax documents in one dashboard.
Live Support: 7 days a week support for both families and nannies to answer payroll or tax questions.
To the family holding it all together…
I know exactly where you are sitting. I know the weight of the "mental load," the late-night scrolling through nanny groups and daycare reviews, and feeling overwhelmed with your “care.com” inbox. I know all to well that nagging feeling that you’re settling for "good enough" because you simply don’t have the hours in the day to find "extraordinary." One of the hardest parts of this journey is feeling like you have to choose a "side." You’re told it’s either the social structure of a daycare or the one-on-one attention of a nanny. I’m here to tell you that with the right guide, you don't have to choose.
Through our consultations and education design, we help you curate the "best of both worlds." Whether that’s finding a nanny who brings intentional curriculum into your living room, or navigating your local daycare options to find the one that truly aligns with your values, we are here to build a customized support network that works for your family. We aren't just a recruitment agency. We want to be your partner in parenting, the expert in your corner who handles the vetting, the research, and the educational strategy so you can step out of "manager mode" and back into the moments that matter.
Let’s build your village, with heart and with intention.
-Elley Palatucci Founder and Director
